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The summer months are filled with weddings. I have been traveling around the western NC area quite a lot. Now that my husband, Rev Tom Johanson is also performing ceremonies, I am sometimes traveling alone as he will have a wedding to perform in the opposite direction.  My youngest daughter has recently returned to NC so I am hoping she will step in and be my driving companion and take pictures for my wedding portfolio. 
My book is finished and at the publishers. I finally have time to catch up with filing, advertising and other business related efforts. I like to keep a file of each wedding I perform with a copy of the marriage license,  the ceremony, the check and a photo of the bride and groom.  I have quite a bit of work to do to catch up on these files.
Summer time has been outdoor wedding time and I have performed a lot of ceremonies. The biggest problem with summer weddings has not been the chance of rain but the HEAT. If you are planning an outdoor summer wedding it is a good idea to have the ceremony in the late afternoon or early evening.  A hand fan on each chair provides guests with some relief.  Please do not seat your guests in the sun. I have been to several weddings where there is a pavilion or large gazebo and for some reason, the guests are seated outside of the shaded area and out in the hot sun. I look out at a sea of sweaty faces hoping for a short ceremony.  For the outdoor reception provide large fans that keep the air moving.  Most outdoor weddings I have attended have  buckets filled with ice and bottled water, an excellent idea to keep your guests hydrated. Summer weddings are beautiful, the brides wear filmy gowns and the grooms are often in white linen suits, flowers are bountiful as are bees and, lately, I have seen hummingbirds fluttering around the flowers at the weddings.   Scheduling a late afternoon outdoor wedding,Taking time to provide hand fans, large electric fans, cold water and seating in the shade makes for a beautiful and enjoyable outdoor summer wedding. 

CREATING YOUR PERSONAL VOWS

TIPS FOR CREATING YOUR PERSONAL VOWS
an excerpt from the upcoming book,
THE JOURNEY TO MARRIAGE
by Hannah Desmond
 
TIPS FOR CREATING YOUR PERSONAL VOWS
 
Here are a few suggestions to help you get started. No one can tell you exactly how to write your vows, as they must come from your heart. I have included suggestions for preparing yourself to create the vows and words and phrases to help you begin the process.
 
  • Before you begin to write your vows, go within and allow your emotions to guide you. The feelings that arise, the statements that ring true within your heart are the essence of the vows you want to make.  
 
  •  Your vows do not have to be long, witty or poetic. You may want to include information about the first moment you saw her or him, celebrate the love that has grown between you and state your intention as a husband or wife.
 
  •  It is okay to write your vows together and share them with one another as you plan your wedding ceremony or write them separately and read them to one another for the first time during your ceremony.
 
  • Words such as loving trust, appreciation, respect, cherish, support and encouragement may be used to express your feelings and the promises you wish to make.  The idea of sharing dreams and building a life together, offering strength and comfort, respect and laughter are wonderful sentiments to include.
 
  •  Promises to grow with one another in mind and spirit, to be open, honest and faithful are often included.
 
  • The vows can end with a statement such as “I am overjoyed to be marrying you and thank you for becoming my wife/husband.” “I give you my hand, my heart and my love forever.”
 
  • The most important ingredient in your personal vows is your authentic voice.  Speak to one another as if you were alone, for indeed, in that moment time stands still and you are in sacred space where no other can distract you or judge your words.
 
 
 
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